Your willingness to look at your darkness is what empowers you to change

Your willingness to look at your darkness is what empowers you to change

Iyanla Vanzant

When you're the strong one, people don't permit you to hurt.

When you're the strong one, people don't permit you to hurt.

When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed.

When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed.

The only thing that goes on in your life is what your allow to go on in your life

The only thing that goes on in your life is what your allow to go on in your life

You have a right to your thoughts and feelings. Your feelings are always valid.

You have a right to your thoughts and feelings. Your feelings are always valid.

When we have peace in our hearts and minds, we draw peace into our lives.

When we have peace in our hearts and minds, we draw peace into our lives.

Challenges come so we can grow and be prepared for things we are not equipped to handle now.

Challenges come so we can grow and be prepared for things we are not equipped to handle now.

With all things in life, we do not get what we ask for, we get what we expect.

With all things in life, we do not get what we ask for, we get what we expect.

Their issues are not your issues.

Their issues are not your issues.

Lives fall apart when they need to be rebuilt.

Lives fall apart when they need to be rebuilt.

You have to meet people where they are, and sometimes you have to leave them there.

You have to meet people where they are, and sometimes you have to leave them there.

People you don't love can't hurt you.

People you don't love can't hurt you.

Why having been endowed with the courageous heart of a lion, do we live as mice?

Why having been endowed with the courageous heart of a lion, do we live as mice?

A high performer is someone who says, 'I want to be the best at what I'm doing.'

A high performer is someone who says, 'I want to be the best at what I'm doing.'

If you look at high performers they are always the most passionate - in any industry.

If you look at high performers they are always the most passionate - in any industry.

Aliveness doesn't happen in silence. Aliveness doesn't happen in repression. Aliveness happens in action.

Aliveness doesn't happen in silence. Aliveness doesn't happen in repression. Aliveness happens in action.

It's that engagement of learning that makes us feel alive.

It's that engagement of learning that makes us feel alive.

Well being, serenity and service to others are the ultimate measures of true wealth, success and power

Well being, serenity and service to others are the ultimate measures of true wealth, success and power

When you are congruent in your personal life, you will be congruent in your business life.

When you are congruent in your personal life, you will be congruent in your business life.