Our 'mistakes' become our crucial parts, sometimes our best parts, of the lives we have made.

Our 'mistakes' become our crucial parts, sometimes our best parts, of the lives we have made.

Ellen Goodman

Women have gained access to the institutions, but not enough power to overhaul them.

Women have gained access to the institutions, but not enough power to overhaul them.

In journalism, there has always been a tension between getting it first and getting it right.

In journalism, there has always been a tension between getting it first and getting it right.

We owned what we learned back there; the experience and the growth are grafted into our lives.

We owned what we learned back there; the experience and the growth are grafted into our lives.

Today, much of journalism and politics are in a kind of collusion to oversimplify and personalize issues. No room for ambivalence. Plenty of room for the personal attack.

Today, much of journalism and politics are in a kind of collusion to oversimplify and personalize issues. No room for ambivalence. Plenty of room for the personal attack.

Civility, it is said, means obeying the unenforceable.

Civility, it is said, means obeying the unenforceable.

Age is an accumulation of life and loss. Adulthood is a series of lines crossed.

Age is an accumulation of life and loss. Adulthood is a series of lines crossed.

The things we hate about ourselves aren't more real than things we like about ourselves.

The things we hate about ourselves aren't more real than things we like about ourselves.

We want our children to fit in and to stand out. We rarely address the conflict between these goals.

We want our children to fit in and to stand out. We rarely address the conflict between these goals.

instant opinion is an oxymoron. You don't get real opinions in an instant. You get reactions.

instant opinion is an oxymoron. You don't get real opinions in an instant. You get reactions.

Maybe this year, we ought to walk through the rooms of our lives not looking for flaws, but looking for potential.

Maybe this year, we ought to walk through the rooms of our lives not looking for flaws, but looking for potential.

The central struggle of parenthood is to let our hopes for our children outweigh our fears.

The central struggle of parenthood is to let our hopes for our children outweigh our fears.

Ultimately, time is all you have and the idea isn't to save it, but to savour it.

Ultimately, time is all you have and the idea isn't to save it, but to savour it.

The lid is made of stone, and it looks like there is a mechanism to open it.

The lid is made of stone, and it looks like there is a mechanism to open it.

Don’t wait to be hunted to hide, that was always my motto.

Don’t wait to be hunted to hide, that was always my motto.

I have my faults, but changing my tune is not one of them.

I have my faults, but changing my tune is not one of them.

The sun shone, having no alternative, on the nothing new.

The sun shone, having no alternative, on the nothing new.

The old endless chain of love, tolerance, indifference, aversion and disgust

The old endless chain of love, tolerance, indifference, aversion and disgust

I, of whom I know nothing, I know my eyes are open, because of the tears that pour from them unceasingly.

I, of whom I know nothing, I know my eyes are open, because of the tears that pour from them unceasingly.