The only person who cannot be helped is that person who blames others.

The only person who cannot be helped is that person who blames others.

Carl Rogers

No other person's ideas, and none of my own ideas, are as authoritative as my experience.

No other person's ideas, and none of my own ideas, are as authoritative as my experience.

Man's inability to communicate is a result of his failure to listen effectively.

Man's inability to communicate is a result of his failure to listen effectively.

It is the client who knows what hurts, what directions to go, what problems are crucial, what experiences have been deeply buried.

It is the client who knows what hurts, what directions to go, what problems are crucial, what experiences have been deeply buried.

Life is about Being & Becoming.

Life is about Being & Becoming.

Am I living in a way which is deeply satisfying to me, and which truly expresses me?

Am I living in a way which is deeply satisfying to me, and which truly expresses me?

It is astonishing how elements that seem insoluble become soluble when someone listens.

It is astonishing how elements that seem insoluble become soluble when someone listens.

Life, at its best, is a flowing, changing process in which nothing is fixed.

Life, at its best, is a flowing, changing process in which nothing is fixed.

We cannot change, we cannot move away from what we are, until we thoroughly accept what we are. Then change seems to come about almost unnoticed.

We cannot change, we cannot move away from what we are, until we thoroughly accept what we are. Then change seems to come about almost unnoticed.

What you are to be, you are now becoming.

What you are to be, you are now becoming.

The good life is a process, not a state of being. It is a direction not a destination.

The good life is a process, not a state of being. It is a direction not a destination.

People only seriously consider change when they feel accepted for exactly who they are.

People only seriously consider change when they feel accepted for exactly who they are.

A person cannot teach another person directly; a person can only facilitate another's learning

A person cannot teach another person directly; a person can only facilitate another's learning

As no one else can know how we perceive, we are the best experts on ourselves.

As no one else can know how we perceive, we are the best experts on ourselves.

The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.

The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.

No event in American history is more misunderstood than the Vietnam War. It was misreported then, and it is misremembered now.

No event in American history is more misunderstood than the Vietnam War. It was misreported then, and it is misremembered now.

Maybe New York shouldn't survive. Maybe it should go through a cycle of destruction.

Maybe New York shouldn't survive. Maybe it should go through a cycle of destruction.

Screw State! State's always on the side of the blacks. The hell with them!

Screw State! State's always on the side of the blacks. The hell with them!

I would not like to be a political leader in Russia. They never know when they're being taped.

I would not like to be a political leader in Russia. They never know when they're being taped.